“What mind do you use to drive the way you live?” The first time I was asked this I didn’t even have to hesitate. I immediately said Logical. I was proud to know that I was reasonable and rational. Life was black and white and I could be confident in myself to make the rightContinue reading “The Wise Mind”
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You Did What?
They say not to make any major life changes when you’re going through difficult times. I am here to say, “Fuck.That.Shit.” This is the time to feel all the feels and throw other people’s expectations and opinions away. If there’s something you’ve always wanted but never did, now is the time to do it. AsContinue reading “You Did What?”
Therapy v1.5
I started therapy on a Thursday, the day after the previously discussed text message. His name was Mike. He had a salt and pepper braided tail half way down his back. You know, a tail… like it was fucking 1989. 😑 I’d been to therapy before, after my dad died. (Yes, my dad died ofContinue reading “Therapy v1.5”
How the hell did I get here?
The details will all spill out in time, but my high level introduction goes something like, “I’m Kristan. I’m an unexpectedly single mom raising 3 kids. I was a stay at home mom until my ex decided to leave, so now I’m a full time working mom. I’m the oldest of 5 kids from aContinue reading “How the hell did I get here?”
Well, that was weird.
I think he forgot a burrito for lunch. I’m pretty sure it was a burrito. Anyway, he definitely forgot something in the house as we were navigating through the garage to our cars. He had a full day of work and I think I was only working until 2:30 so we took separate cars thatContinue reading “Well, that was weird.”
Becoming Again 